Why Girls Don't Want to get Married

Wow I found this interesting article today in some forum and guess what........it rings a few bells in my own reasons...... My comments are in purple.....

Some common reason taken from internet:-

●After marry, I'm no more his lover. I don't wish to be cold treated.

●After marry, my position in his is far behind from his family, he won't have much care about me anymore

●Affter marry, every friend and relative only interested to know: "When will you give birth?", I don't want to give birth and don't wish to tell people: "We are working on it."

●After marry, I've don't want to have problem with my mother in law.

●After marry, our love nest will become home for our kids. Mother in law will visit sometimes, and I need to prepare a room for her

● After marry, my son and daughter become someone's grandchildren, I don't want someone to take care and teach them

●After marry, his mom become my mom, my mom is still my mom. I don't need to serve my mom, but I need to serve his mom. I only want one mom.

●After marry, I become the slave of his mom, being ordered around without expecting complains.

●After marry, we cannot go anywhere for vacation just as we like it. Going somewhere near, worry his mom asking why don't bring her along; going somewhere far, worry his mom will say don't waste so much money.

●After marry, house always has to be neat and tidy, to prepare for her majesty coming

●After marry, he may has affair outside. i don't wish to check his phone often, also don't want to check of his shirt got some special perfume

●After marry, I will become a maid. I don't like someone order me around, saying that I'm lazy, don't respect elder. I need to go for work, need to rest, I don't want to be slave in both working place and home

Well, I'm married but I don't want any kids and yes MIL's get in the way but challenges makes you stronger and ignorance is bliss.....Sometimes just being yourself is better than pleasing everyone. So if you have a naggy MIL, just ignore and do your own stuff.....and let her know you don't like to be ordered around....you will do stuff whenever you like. Marriage is a good thing when two people help each other out to settle problems.....you and your husband are one family so make that a wonderful family =)

Valentine's 2010

14.02.2010

It's Valentine's Day!!!! and also first day of Chinese New Year...After waking up from bed, my hubby and I went for breakfast and after that hubby took me to buy my valentine's day pressie!!! He wanted me to choose my present...hahah...and I choose a necklace instead of roses....since roses withers and u can't keep it after that, I'd rather have something for keeps =) Love you hubby dearest ♥

Welcoming Year 2010

Wow.....It's been ages since I've blog....goodness me!!! Life in 2009 hasn't been a bed of roses but well life goes on hopefully Year 2010 will be a better year for me in every aspect...Hmm....Every event seem to pass through wilth a blink of an eye....First up for Year 2010, was a planned holiday with hubby then a big arguement with hubby erupt, thank God for wisdom we continue with the planned holiday and made up.....then comes a house ^.^ So happen there was a soft-launch before our holiday so we made a booking. Thank God we can finally have a house of our own. Then comes Chinese New Year.....this year is going to be my first time giving out "angpow" Gosh makes me feel like an Aunty....hmmm...I shall just pass this role to my hubby...ekekekek....Then now I'm at work AGAIN.....Work seems to revolve around our lives so much that it takes up bout 3/4 of our lives without noticing it. Well this is because we need to work to have more money for ourselves and so we spend most of our lives working. Money seems to be like the air we breathe unless we are multi billionaires. We survive on money like our food.

Just a few days ago, I found out that one of my ex-boyfriend has finally found his sunshine after being single for like 2 years or so since we parted our own ways. Well I hope the best for you dear =) Hope that all will end well for the both of you....What remains are the memories you left.

I have not even come up with 2010 resolutions YET......will make some time for it...till then ADIOS!!!!